Newsletter – Let’s Celebrate Divorce

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Anyone who desires to make this fascinating planet more magical 

needs to understand the madness society creates.’

Charlotte Common

It might sound very rebellious for an ordained minister to suggest that divorce should be celebrated. However, experience has taught me that far too many men and women suffer a great deal by sticking to the promises they once made in a self-sabotaging and unhealthy way. What seems to trap unhappy couples in an almost paralysing way unable to make pro-life choices is the outdated idea of a life-long relationship. ‘Until death parts’ is taken literally forgetting that the death of a relationship is also a death that separates two people.


Broken contracts for whatever reasons are broken contracts. When it comes to marriage men and women tend to ignore brokenness, almost wrapping any dramas into a pink cloud of forgetting, hoping that it all would simply go away. What is even worse is that broken relationships are divinised claiming that it is God’s will for them to suffer.  All this does is keep unhappy people locked up together in an invisible prison almost encouraging them to avoid taking responsibility for their lives by making healthier, life changing choices. It is a vicious circle creating a lot of soul pain.
Divinising brokenness in couples can have a terrible effect resulting in suffering like a dripping tap, sometimes for a life time. Innocent children are sucked into an unhealthy atmosphere of pretence, which is confusing for them. Children exposed to chronically unhappy parents are taught from a very young age onwards that love is painful.

Our world thankfully is changing. Old fashioned ideas society created to control and manipulate each other are being dissolved. A new society is emerging. The longing for authentic living is becoming stronger and stronger in so many corners of the world.


I am a pioneer in love and intimate relationship matters. I am passionate about assisting men and women to find true and lasting happiness. I myself suffered a great deal and have witnessed many people in pain stuck in outdated ideas.

The unfulfilling shadow life will always be there for those too afraid to face reality.

A life full of magical moments patiently waits until a life of pretence is simply not good enough anymore for those who use their wings and dare to fly to happiness too good to be true.

‘Words saturated with sincerity, conviction, faith, and intuition are like highly explosive bombs, which, when set off, shatter the rocks of difficulties and create the change desired.’
Paramahansa Yogananda

Sending you warmth from my soul to yours



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